Readings:
Nehemiah 8: 9-12
Luke 7: 36-50
Month of
Jubilee - a month celebrating festivals
A
Partying Community
I
don't know about you, but I've enjoyed celebrating a month of
Jubilee at Kippax. On the first two Sundays in July we spent time
with God the great party giver and Jesus, man of the party. The next
Sunday we spent partying at home, and this week, our last ‘partying
Sunday', we are reflecting on being a partying community.
The
Old Testament reading for today is Nehemiah 8. In this passage, some
months after their return from exile and captivity, the Israelites
gathered in the town square in Jerusalem and asked Ezra, priest and
scholar, to explain the Law to them.
Ezra
and some others did so. The bible records that when the people heard
what the law required, they were so moved they began to cry. Can you
picture that? A crowd of men, women and children. Old and young. Some
sitting, some standing. Kids on adults shoulders. Dogs, chickens and
goats amongst the crowd. And tears leaking out of people's eyes.
Streaming down some people's faces. Others weeping, head in hands.
People holding each other, passing round cloths for eyes and noses...
I
experienced something a little like that once, at our church's
National Assembly six years ago in Melbourne. James Haire, in his
last address to the Uniting Church as President, spoke from the heart
about peace and justice, and martyrs he had known and loved in our
region. A young man beheaded for his faith as he knelt in the church
he was studying theology in. Women attacked at home for their
connection to the Christian church. James was calling for a gutsy
Australian response to justice in our region, so that all faiths and
peoples might learn to live in peace. We all stood as he spoke, and
some of us linked hands. Many of us had tears spilling down our
faces. It was a shocking call back to the core of our faith: love and
justice. The shocking part was not so much the violence that James
shared but that we had stopped paying attention from our hearts. Our
love had atrophied. Six people dead in a week in a small island
nation whose name we forgot two minutes after the news bulletin had
become again real people with hopes and dreams, people just like us.
When
I think of the crowd in the public square in Jerusalem listening to
Ezra the prophet exegete the law, or of that afternoon in a crowded
hall in Melbourne listening to James make the case for love driven
justice, the words of another prophet, Micah, come to mind. "What
does the Lord require of you? That you love mercy, act justly, and
walk humbly with God each day".
Back
to the Israelites. Imagine having been in exile for so long and
finally coming home. They've settled back in, and it's been seven
months so people's houses and gardens and animals are in order and
thriving, and perhaps for some captivity and exile are beginning to
seem like a bad dream. People want to gather and affirm their shared
identity, and what better way to do that than have the priest teach
the law in a public space.
Something
special happened as Ezra spoke that day. For some reason, people who
had grown up immersed in the law heard it anew. It may have been that
they were grounded again back in their home and more receptive. Ezra
may have been particularly eloquent. Whatever the reason, the crowd
was moved to tears.
Many
of you would know that I was given this beautiful preaching scarf at
the service we had to celebrate my dad's life last month. Each of
us got one. They are red for love. About a month before Dad died, we
were called into hospital as Dad was not expected to survive the
night. At one point, early on, I took all the kids, my two and Dave's
four, out to the public area in Casualty to wait for a room with
space for us all to be with Dad. (This may or may not surprise you,
but apparently 12 Hatfields in a small space are quite loud.) We
talked about Grandpa and what might happen, and as we leaned into
each other I said to the kids that this was the moment when our faith
had to count. "If our faith doesn't matter tonight", I said "it
doesn't matter at all."
When
you are facing something real, all your usual masks and defences and
pretences fall away. You're left with your own naked self - who you
really are and what you really believe. At those moments, when your
soul is close to the surface, tears often come. Cleansing, healing
tears that help carry you through and through which you can begin to
make sense of things in a deeper way than before.
Margaret
Atwood, brilliant Canadian author and truth-teller says that the only
way to see the world clearly is through tears.
I
wonder if that's what happened in Jerusalem on that day so long
ago. As Ezra read from the law, and then as he and thirteen others
explained it in a way that people could understand and connect with,
perhaps people heard the truth of the law for the first time. Under
the blue skies of home, in peace and growing prosperity, but in the
light of a recent bitter experience of captivity and exile, they
could see the law clearly in a way they had never been able to
before.
Not
rules and regulations, not crowns and kingdoms, power and property -
the truth of the law is about who
we are, individually and
collectively in community. The law is a road map to living well.
I
imagine that that realisation, that clarity, produced the tears.
People wept as they realised, deep in their guts, that the law was
not endless rules, but life giving instruction. Not a cage of do-s
and don'ts, but freeing and enabling. Imagine both the relief of
this new understanding and the chagrin of not getting it earlier.
It's hard to believe that Ezra didn't make the point that in
living in the law, the people's relationship with God stayed
strong. God was with them through their captivity and exile and
brought them home. Truth being told, and being heard. Souls close to
the surface. Cleansing tears, and a people ready to go deeper.
Friends
of ours were at an 80th
birthday celebration yesterday and as we shared a cup of tea in the
late afternoon, Robyn was reflecting on the party and what we are
remembered for. We are rarely remembered, she said, for the make of
car we drive, or the size of our house or even our career. Most of us
are remembered relationally. Those of us who are remembered with
enormous love are people who live well - people who care, who
express love in practical ways, who are an important part of their
community, who are real.
As
the penny is dropping for the Israelites that the law is a manual for
living well and can set them free in the most fundamental way,
Nehemiah doesn't instruct them to go home and study it some more.
Instead, the governor declares the day holy and tells the people to
go home and feast, sharing food and wine with those who haven't
enough. Go and party, he says. Party with everyone!
So
the community partied. The city feasted. You can imagine people
partying in the streets, the bright light of morning turning to late
afternoon as people moved from inside around tables with their
families to visiting with neighbours, dragging chairs and tables
outside into the afternoon sun, bringing out more food as day turned
to night and torches were lit; kids staying up way too late, food and
wine becoming song and dance. Music and the smell of cooking meat and
excited chatter overlaid with shouts of laughter in courtyards and
down laneways. Everyone included, everyone partying.
What
a great image. You can bet that Ezra understood that party
is more than an expression of community -he knew that party creates
community. Celebration creates a deep sense of connectedness with
others.
Henri
Nouwen defined celebration as the acceptance of life in a constantly
increasing awareness of its preciousness. Life is precious if for no
other reason than that one day it will be gone. Richard Fowler, who
wrote the excellent book ‘Stages of Faith" describes a developed
faith as one in which people love life but hold it lightly.
To
be really, truly aware of life's infinite frailty is to either live
abundantly and celebrate each hour and day, or to slide into profound
depression or existential angst.
Which
is probably why so many people in our culture choose not to attend to
life's precious and fairly fleeting nature.
Our
community celebrations here at Kippax should be legendary in our
wider community. And I reckon they are becoming that way. Our
festivals, garage sales and other community events are developing a
well earned reputation for being spaces and times of welcome,
acceptance and joy.
Quite
a few friends of mine who came to our celebration of Dad's life
here last month were blown away by our community and the strong sense
of celebration and party evident at that service. In the weeks that
have followed, I've had serious conversations with three different
households about joining us here at Kippax, because they want to be
part of what they experienced at Dad's service: a community able to
look life's hard stuff right in the eye, and in doing so celebrate
our shared lives and love for each other and for God in a way that
includes everyone. Being real, being there for others, celebrating,
going deeper.
We
are already doing what Ezra and Nehemiah were teaching the Israelites
to do in Jerusalem. We party together at Kippax in the light of what
is true - what we know about ourselves and our wider community and
how we all struggle in different ways, and what we know about faith
and God - and as we party, we celebrate our community and continue
to build it stronger, wider, deeper.
Dad
knew about the key role of celebration in building community. He made
sure that our family shared regular meals together, and gathered for
every birthday, triumph and sadness. We went away together. We told
stories, played games, hung out and partied heaps. In many ways, Dad
was the keeper of our family's story. Dad isn't with us anymore
but his legacy of love and faith burns bright. We continue to gather,
to share meals and stories and games. We continue to party because
there is so much to celebrate - life and love and hope - and
because gathering to celebrate keeps us growing together, stronger,
wider, deeper.
When
Gordon and Steve were laying these scarves around our necks, they
said that hearing about Dad and celebrating his life was not about us
all needing to run out and become Alan Hatfield clones; but rather
that we had all been gifted with the opportunity to reflect on how
one special person lived and make some changes in ourselves if we
wanted to.
I
guess that's the cool thing about a Jubilee month. You get the time
and space to touch base with yourself and with your community. To
take the temperature of both, to make sure you are who you want to
be, who you know you have the potential to be. Each of us can do
those things in an environment that's both fun and safe as we
gather to celebrate together this month and into the future.
American
feminist Emma Goldman used to say "If you can't dance to it, it
ain't my revolution". Amen to that. Let's dance as we move
lightly with the breath of God in the world. Let's be a community
that's so fun and so real that there is a welcome place for
everyone in it. Let's keep going deeper, together.





